Too Sexy

I’ve had the same body for 43 years and I’ve only recently learned to enjoy my sexiness. By definition Sexy means sexually attractive or exciting. I’ve never looked at myself as either; as a matter of fact, I would say I was average. I’ve never oozed sexiness. Note: sexiness oozers (JLo, Ri Ri, Nia, Angela Bassett). We all know that society has a way of trying to make a curvy black woman; actually any black woman irrelevant. How many times have we seen “others” get the credit for their sexiness with parts they’ve either purchased or manipulated. Or just because they look “society friendly” or “exotic”. I’ve always had the right equipment to be considered a brick house, but I never really appreciated my body. I jokingly would say “I use my booty for good not evil”. But my 40s have made me accept every curve, dimple and tummy pouch with great love. The older I get the more I understand how much I need to maintain my health and body confidence. The older I get I realize that strength and wisdom adds to my sexiness. The older I get I realize everything is in the right places. HMMM: Maybe I can be an Instagram model (HA!) So, as I dance in front of the mirror with Usher’s Bad Girl playing in my head, I will try to contain all of this sexiness. 

Author: Sincerely Cindy aka Sexy Chocolate